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The Ultimate Guide to Surrogacy in New York

Surrogacy is legal in New York, and Circle Surrogacy is licensed to work with NY surrogates and intended parents! Surrogacy is a wonderful way for intended parents to grow their families, and for gestational surrogates to carry babies for those who can't do so on their own. The surrogacy process involves many professionals, and can feel complex. Circle Surrogacy is here to help you navigate surrogacy in New York, from the surrogacy process, to surrogacy laws, how to find a surrogate and much more.

Circle Surrogacy is excited to announce that we are fully licensed for surrogacy in New York. While Circle Surrogacy already works with many intended parents from all parts of NY – from New York City to Westchester to Long Island – the passing of this New York surrogacy law and our licensure allows intended parents to use their fertility clinics in New York and match with gestational carriers from New York. The law will offer abundant protections for surrogates and give intended parents a state-of-the-art law that supports all families who rely on medical advances to have children.

Women who reside in New York can now fill out a surrogacy application and start the surrogate process. Circle Surrogacy is proud to support gestational carriers as they apply from across New York state – from Albany, Buffalo, Rochester, and Syracuse, to Poughkeepsie, New Rochelle, Ithaca, and more.

Circle Surrogacy's New York Office

Circle Surrogacy – New York
48 Wall Street
Suite 1100
New York, NY 10043
Phone: (332) 282-2151
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An Overview of Surrogacy in New York

Circle Surrogacy supported New York intended parents on their surrogacy journeys for decades. You have many options if you're looking to find a surrogate or egg donor. Whether you live in NYC, upstate, western New York, or anywhere in between, here's everything you need to know about gestational surrogacy.

Who does surrogacy help? Surrogacy allows couples and individuals from various backgrounds, ages, and sexual orientations to build their families.

Intended parents from New York who come to Circle for surrogacy include:

• Heterosexual couples who have struggled with infertility
• Women who are unable to carry a child
• Intended parents who have a genetic defect or health condition they don't want to pass on to the child
LGBTQ+ intended parents who want to have a genetic link to their baby

We partner with intended parents with different reasons for coming to surrogacy and egg donation. We're proud to have helped bring over 2,700 babies into the world.

 Costs of Surrogacy for Intended Parents

Why New York Is a Great State for Surrogacy

New York is a great place to live if you're considering parenthood through surrogacy and/or egg donation.

You'll find some of the world's most notable hospitals and IVF clinics in New York and the surrounding Tri-state area. Intended parents and surrogates from New York – and international intended parents who travel to the US via New York – will have access to respected reproductive endocrinologists.

Circle Surrogacy also has an office in New York which has allowed them to have established relationships with well-known New York clinics and a community of NY-based parents through our program. Intended parents interested in surrogacy would meet with our New York-based support team, both parents through our program.

Surrogacy in New York for Intended Parents

Surrogacy and egg donation help straight and LGBTQ+ singles and couples in New York grow their families. New York is a surrogacy-friendly state, and intended parents will find many top-rated IVF clinics in the area and on the east coast.

Below you'll be able to find information about surrogacy in New York, including what the surrogacy process looks like, how much surrogacy costs in New York, what surrogacy program can help you, and so much more. The process can initially feel overwhelming, but the more you read and research, the more familiar it will become. Many professionals are involved in a surrogacy journey, which is a life-changing experience.

We're ready to help intended parents from Albany, Buffalo, Rochester, and Syracuse to Poughkeepsie, New Rochelle, Ithaca, and everywhere in between.

Circle has an office in New York City, and our experienced team is happy to meet with you in person, or by phone to answer any questions you may have. We have many intended parents – now parents! – in New York, and have regular 'meet ups' in the city.

The Surrogacy Process in New York

Circle Surrogacy has made parenthood possible for straight and LGBTQ+ singles and couples from New York through surrogacy and egg donation since opening the doors to our Boston office in 1995.

The surrogacy process can be complex at times, with many milestones that lead to the final outcome: the birth of your baby! Understanding and preparing for the steps in the surrogacy process is essential.

You may choose to undergo your surrogacy journey independently or with the help of a surrogacy agency. With over 25 years of experience, Circle Surrogacy recommends working with an agency to ensure you have the proper support to ensure you have as smooth and safe of a journey as possible.

Choosing an Agency
A great first step to any surrogacy journey is research. There are many different agencies out there – from smaller, boutique agencies to larger, full-service agencies – and it's important to understand their differences so you can make an informed decision. It's also a good idea to think about the qualities you're looking for in an agency. Not every surrogacy agency is a good fit; choose one which shares your views about the surrogacy process and where you sense good chemistry. And because surrogacy laws vary from state to state, it’s essential to work with an agency whose lawyers are knowledgeable in ART (Assisted Reproductive Technology) and surrogacy law. We’ll help you understand New York's new surrogacy laws.
Finding a Surrogate and Egg Donor
At Circle Surrogacy, you will work closely with your Matching Team to find the perfect surrogate match. Circle is a "relationship-based agency," which means we focus on solid relationships between surrogates and intended parents; we'll encourage you to form a strong bond with the woman who will carry your baby or babies. Some intended parents require an egg donor to grow their family. Parents will match with an egg donor before matching with their surrogate. Intended Parents can search our egg donor database to find bright and ambitious young women excited about the opportunity to help them grow their family.
Pregnancy and Parenthood
During the pregnancy is when intended parents and surrogates really deepen their relationship. Surrogates often share updates on the pregnancy, and intended parents may visit for appointments, or many times surrogates use video chat during appointments so the intended parents can "attend." From week 20 and beyond, Circle will work closely with you to help prepare you for your baby's birth, finalize parentage, and ensure you have everything you need to return home safely.
 Starting the Surrogacy Process

Starting the Surrogacy Process

For intended parents in New York, the best place to start a surrogacy journey and find a surrogacy agency is by researching. This can be through online research, speaking with IVF doctors, or connecting with others who have been through the surrogacy process as parents.

Find a Surrogacy Agency in 3 Steps:

1. Do your research! You can learn all there is to know about surrogacy.

2. Write down what's important to you in a surrogacy journey. What type of surrogate/intended parent relationship are you looking for? What level of surrogacy support?

3. List agencies that fit your criteria and reach out. Finding an agency that "feels right" is important!

Next Steps for New York Intended Parents:

Once intended parents have identified 1-3 agencies that seem like a good fit, it's a good idea to fill out an interest form and connect with the parent intake team. Once they reach out, you can decide if you're ready for a surrogacy consultation. If you've selected an agency that you'd like to meet with, the first step is to schedule a consultation.

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We are happy to meet with intended parents in person in New York when possible, or via video.

If you're not ready for a full consultation but would like more information, you can schedule a pre-consultation with our intake team by contacting [email protected], and someone will contact us to coordinate a time.
 Becoming a Parent in New York

Becoming a Parent in New York

Becoming a parent in New York is safe and simple, and Circle has worked with many parents from the Empire State over the last 2 decades. New York parents should feel confident partnering with Circle Surrogacy to grow their families through surrogacy and/or egg donation.

Circle Surrogacy has an office in midtown Manhattan, where our local New York Parent Intake team meets with clients. We are happy to meet with clients during the week, on weekends, during the day, or in the evenings. When parents have a consultation with Circle, it allows them to share their story, explain why they are considering surrogacy, and ask all their questions about the process, the agency, and costs.

How much is surrogacy? That's one of the most-asked questions we receive. Circle is open and transparent about surrogacy costs on our website, and we are ready to speak with you about what costs go into a typical surrogacy journey.

How Much Does a Surrogate Mother Cost in New York?

For intended parents in NYC, upstate or western New York, or anywhere in between, Circle Surrogacy offers one all-inclusive surrogacy cost program: the Journey Protection Guarantee Program.

This program was designed to provide intended parents with the utmost protection and financial security, with no surprise costs or fees popping up during the journey. No other surrogacy agency can promise that!

Journey Protection Guarantee Program

Surrogacy only: $157,750
Surrogacy plus egg donation: $184,750
(both prices exclude IVF)

Our Journey Protection Guarantee offers Intended Parents:

  • An all-inclusive program that covers all Surrogate fees and expenses for unlimited transfers and any complications that may arise during your journey
  • No surprise costs or invoices, even in scenarios that require a rematch with a new Surrogate

Our Journey Protection Guarantee Program includes fixed costs on the following:

• Professional Fees
• Gestational Carrier (i.e., surrogate) and Egg Donor Fees
• Pregnancy, Labor & Delivery Insurance

Circle Surrogacy is proud to offer this all-inclusive program to help as many Intended Parents in New York as possible bring home a baby while reducing variable costs.

The above costs are for our Surrogacy Only and Surrogacy Plus Egg Donation Programs. For more information about the costs of our other programs, please email us or call us at 617.439.9900.

Financing Surrogacy Costs

Some intended parents may have the opportunity to qualify for financing for their journey. Please speak with our Parent Intake Team or Consultation Team or by filling out this form.

 Finding a Surrogate Mother in New York

Finding a Surrogate Mother in New York

Finding your surrogate match is an exciting time in your journey to parenthood. Circle works with many surrogate mothers from New York and surrounding states. Circle's main office is also in Boston, with a small office in New York. Our strong representation on the east coast makes it even easier for surrogates and intended parents to connect.

Getting started

The first step in finding a surrogate mother match is to determine what you're looking for in a surrogate, your relationship with your surrogate, and your expectations for your journey.

It's important to be honest when thinking about your answers, as your Matching Team will use these answers – as well as your geographic location and views on termination – to find you the best match.

You'll be asked to fill out an intended parent profile that allows us to get to know you better and helps your Matching Team find your surrogate match.

For your profile, you'll be asked to share information about yourself, your relationship (if you are coupled), your family, your hobbies, your plans for parenthood, and what brought you to surrogacy. We'll ask that you also share photos of yourself, your loved ones, and anything else that gives a good sense of who you are as people. This profile paints a picture of who you are as intended parents for potential surrogate matches.

In addition to your profile, Circle will use other criteria to find your gestational carrier match, including your preferences on:

• Communication. What level do you hope to have with your surrogate?

• Surrogate's location. Do you prefer she lives in a specific state?

• Number of embryos to transfer

• Your views on selective reduction and termination

If you are making an independent surrogacy journey, you can use the above as guidelines for what you should look for in a suitable match.

 3 Criteria for Finding Surrogate Mothers

3 Criteria for Finding Surrogate Mothers

Intended Parents can keep three criteria in mind when searching for a surrogate mother in New York or surrounding states:

1. Is she an appropriate legal fit? In the United States, each state has its own laws regarding surrogacy. At Circle, your Matching Team (which includes a lawyer) ensures that the laws of the surrogate’s home state (where the delivery will take place) complement the laws of intended parents' home state (including laws around same sex parenting). The legal department will always approve a match from a legal standpoint before a surrogate profile is presented to intended parents. We will never knowingly present matches that are not a safe legal fit.

2. Does her personality and surrogacy expectations match yours? Once we have a list of safe matches, the matching team reviews the list to ensure good personality fits, since we want this to be a comfortable relationship throughout the entirety of the journey. Both surrogates and intended parents undergo phone calls or in-person meetings with the Circle team early in the process; these meetings help determine your personality as it relates to surrogacy. We also look at IPs' and surrogates' expectations and hopes for the journey including number of embryos to transfer and communication styles.

3. Expectations Surrounding Termination and Selective Reduction. We ask IPs and surrogates their views on termination of a pregnancy as we want to create a match of IPs and surrogates who share similar views. We want to ensure that the views of the surrogate and the views of the intended parents align in the event a situation arises where a reduction or termination is considered. In our experience, many intended parents prefer the option to make the choice of termination.

 Finding an Egg Donor in New York

Finding an Egg Donor in New York

Some intended parents require an egg donor in order to grow their family. Finding the right egg donor match is key! Here's how to go about finding your egg donor, whether or not she lives in the Empire State!

Finding the perfect egg donor can feel like an overwhelming task. How do you begin to find an egg donor who will help you grow your family?

The first step to finding your perfect egg donor match is to consider the type of woman you're looking for. Some intended parents look for a young woman who has similar qualities that they possess. Other intended parents look for an egg donor who complements their personality or appearance.

And remember, nature vs nurture – not every characteristic or trait is hereditary!

Most intended parents start their egg donor search in an egg donor database. Most Egg Donor databases are set up so that you can search for an egg donor by certain criteria. Circle's egg donor database is easy to use and easy to navigate.

Making a list of search criteria before you begin can be helpful. Some considerations are:

  • Physical attributes (hair/eye color)
  • Race/ethnicity
  • Education
  • Previous fertility
  • Geography

You may not know what you're looking for in a donor, and that's okay! Some intended parents take the "I'll know her when I see her" approach.

 Surrogacy Laws in New York

Surrogacy Laws in New York

New York is one of the most active states for intended parents who work with Circle Surrogacy to grow their families. Circle has excellent success in helping New Yorkers become parents. With its active LGBTQ+ community, New York is a wonderful place to live if you want to become a parent!

Is surrogacy legal in New York? The answer to that question is now yes! The New York Surrogacy Law – the Child-Parent Security Act – has made commercial surrogacy legal in New York. Intended Parents from New York can continue working with Circle Surrogacy as they have in the past and take advantage of the new law.

Here's what the new law means for intended parents:

  • Intended parents who use third-party reproduction to conceive will have a secure legal relationship with their child from birth
  • Legalizing compensation gestational surrogacy agreements
  • A simpler process for securing parenthood for non-biological parents
  • Ending legal uncertainty for single intended mothers who use a sperm donor

Here's what the new law means for gestational carriers:

  • Surrogates will have the right to make all health and welfare decisions regarding themselves and their pregnancy, including termination
  • Surrogates will have independent legal counsel of their choice, paid for by intended parents
  • Surrogates will have access to a health insurance policy, paid for by intended parents
  • Surrogates will have access to counseling and life insurance

Surrogacy in New York for Surrogates

There is so much to learn about becoming a surrogate. We're here to help you navigate surrogacy in New York, from understanding what a surrogate is, what to expect, and how being a surrogate can affect your life, to how to apply to become a surrogate mother.

New York is a surrogacy-friendly state, and its eastern location makes it easily accessible to top-rated IVF clinics. We work with women from all over New York, from Albany, Buffalo, Rochester, and Syracuse, to Poughkeepsie, New Rochelle, Ithaca, and everywhere in between. We're happy to connect you to an experienced surrogate to answer any questions you might have. Circle has an extensive network of surrogates on the east coast!

Read on to see how rewarding being a surrogate can be when you help those who aren't able to have a baby on their own experience the joys of parenthood.

Circle is local to New York! We have an office in New York City, and our experienced team is happy to meet with you in person or by phone to answer any questions you may have.

What Is a Surrogate?

A surrogate mother – also called a gestational carrier or gestational surrogate – is a woman who carries a baby for people (the Intended Parents) who are unable to have a baby on their own. Most surrogate mothers are gestational surrogates, meaning the surrogate mother does not use her eggs and doesn't share any genetics with the baby.

Circle Surrogacy only works with gestational carriers – women who do not share biology with the baby they are carrying.

Surrogate mothers get paid for carrying someone's baby, and they are protected by a legal contract signed by both the surrogate mother and the Intended Parents.

Surrogates are women with children of their own, have had relatively easy pregnancies and births (they like being pregnant!), and many have completed their own families. Surrogate mothers want to help others have their own families.

What is surrogacy? It's an amazing way to help make intended parents' dreams come true and give others the ultimate gift: a baby!

 Surrogate mother sharing her surrogacy journey

5 Things To Know About Being a Surrogate

There is a lot of information out there about becoming a surrogate, but here are 5 quick things for you to know before you begin!

  1. Surrogates do NOT use their own DNA (eggs) for the babies they carry
  2. Surrogates are paid throughout the entirety of their journey (not at the end) and start before pregnancy
  3. Surrogates have a say in with whom they match; all matches are mutual
  4. Surrogates DO need to give themselves injections as part of the IVF process; most surrogates say these needles are no big deal
  5. Surrogates will have to say goodbye to the baby; they look forward to "giving the baby back" to their intended parents; because they are not genetically related to the baby, surrogates do not feel an "attachment" to the babies they carry

Ready to learn more? Read on!

The Process for Surrogates in New York

At Circle, our New York surrogates receive the support and guidance of our experienced social workers and program coordinators, many who have been surrogates themselves. We support women wherever they are in the process whether they are ready to apply now or are interested but want to talk with experienced surrogates or Surrogate Advisors. Here is an overview of the process:

  • Pre-screening
  • Consultation
  • Matching with intended parents
  • Medical screening and legal contracts
  • Monitoring appointments and embryo transfer
  • Pregnancy
  • Delivery

Learn more about the surrogacy process at Circle.

Getting Started as a Surrogate

Wherever you are in your journey, we suggest completing our online surrogacy application. It takes only about 10 minutes to complete and there is no obligation to proceed if you aren’t ready.

 How To Become a Surrogate Mother in NY

How To Become a Surrogate Mother in NY

Women in New York can begin to apply now to be gestational surrogates!

Women who apply to become surrogate mothers are women who want to be part of something bigger than they are. They understand the importance of family, and want to give the gift of parenthood to those who cannot achieve it on their own.

Women who apply to become surrogate mothers are those who have had easy, uncomplicated pregnancies, and who have enjoyed being pregnant. One thing they have in common is that surrogate moms are generous, adventurous and kind.

Women from the Empire State must meet the below requirements in order to qualify to become a gestational carrier:

  • Has delivered a child of their own, and is currently parenting at least one child.
  • Has had uncomplicated pregnancies and deliveries, as documented by medical records.
  • Is between 21 and 44 years of age.
  • Typically has a Body Mass Index (BMI) of no higher than 32. Calculate My BMI.
  • Is a citizen, legal resident or legal immigrant of the United States. If a surrogate is a legal resident or legal immigrant of the United States, the surrogate must be able to provide documentation that is valid for at least 2 years.
  • Does not participate in the following government aid programs: cash assistance, welfare, public housing and section 8. All other forms of government assistance will be considered on a case-by-case basis.

The above requirements, plus this full list of requirements, are what women must meet in order to become surrogate mothers in New York.

Benefits of Being a Surrogate in New York

If you live in New York and you apply to become a surrogate, you will have the opportunity to work with a local, East Coast agency – Circle Surrogacy is headquartered in Boston with an office in midtown Manhattan, NY.

Because of this, Circle Surrogacy works with many intended parents from the East Coast, including the Tri-state area. Surrogates from New York will have the opportunity to work with intended parents who are local to them, and in many cases, fertility clinics that are within driving distance.

Here are some of the benefits to being a surrogate in New York State:

• Opportunity to be matched with intended parents and clinics local to the New York area, which helps cut down on the travel you'd need to do

• Exceptional Compensation and benefits, including pay up to $65k

• Gaining a "second family" in the intended parents with whom you are matched

• An incredible sense of self-fulfillment from giving the greatest gift humanly possible to another family

• A personal journey coordination team and licensed social worker to support you

The Circle Surrogate Promise

The Circle Surrogate Promise was created for surrogates because we truly care about our carriers, and we want each of them to have the most successful and rewarding journey possible.

In the past, our carriers shared thoughts and improvements with their social workers, or during their exit interviews, and we took all of those conversations and suggestions to heart and improved on our offerings to our gestational carriers.

Guaranteed Pay, Security and Support

The Circle Surrogate Promise is a program exclusive to Circle Surrogates; no other agency can offer the same level of security and support.

Circle Surrogacy promises:

  1. Guaranteed Compensation. Circle Surrogacy financially backs their Intended Parents, so a surrogate’s escrow account is always funded to ensure she is always paid in full and on time.
  2. No medical bill liability. Circle Surrogacy takes on the liability of medical bills. We listened to our past surrogates and their frustrations with medical bills and we’ve made big changes. While we can never stop having you receive medical bills (since you are the “patient”), our new Fixed Cost programs for Intended Parents allow us to protect both the surrogates and the intended parents, and ensure all medical bills will be paid in a timely manner.
  3. $5,000 compensation, even if you leave the program. If you are accepted into our surrogate program and you are medically cleared and matched with intended parents – but you don’t achieve a pregnancy – we will compensate you for your time, energy and dedication thus far in your journey (up to $5,000 total).
  4. Empowerment in birth choices. Not every gestational carrier has the same desires when it comes to the birth of their surro baby. At Circle, our surrogates have choices for her preferred birth options, such as doula care, a hospital birth, or using a birth center with a midwife.
  5. Personalized, small agency feel, with the resources of a large agency. The first person you speak with at Circle will likely be an experienced carrier who guides you through the process until you are matched with intended parents, personally introducing you to your dedicated social worker and journey support team, all of whom are in house at Circle. You’ll always be supported by a Circle employee, who knows all the details about you and your journey (you’ll never have to worry about working with a third party who doesn’t even know your name!) Plus, with our expanded team, we are able to offer support groups, virtual events, one-on-one surrogate mentorship and more.
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How Much Do Surrogates Get Paid in New York?

As a surrogate, you have the opportunity to earn between $60,000 and $65,000 in payments and benefits. Surrogate mothers are paid a base fee of between $40,000-$45,000, plus additional compensation and benefits for milestones along their journey.

Certain states are deemed "high-demand states" for surrogates, due to the favorable locations to airports and clinics.

How much women make as a surrogate will depend on a few criteria: the state they live in, if they have insurance, and if they're an experienced gestational carrier.

Surrogate payments are made monthly, and surrogate mothers start earning compensation and benefits even before they are pregnant.

How does surrogate pay work?

Your surrogate compensation is paid to you throughout the duration of your surrogacy journey. In fact, you will receive payments before you are even pregnant.

Surrogate pay includes the following:

• Base compensation. Calculate your base compensation with the calculator above to see how much you could earn as a surrogate in your state.
Payments before you are pregnant. You will be compensated early in your journey for completing tasks and milestones. These payments are in addition to your base compensation.
Payments during and after pregnancy. Surrogate mothers also receive financial support for necessities during the pregnancy, such as maternity clothing, housekeeping, for pumping and shipping breast milk and more.
Additional benefits. Surrogates will also receive benefits that while are not in the form of monetary payments, are priceless in ensuring you're protected and you have a smooth journey. These benefits include: social work support, legal counsel, life insurance and more.

How Circle Supports Surrogates

Circle provides best-in-class surrogate support because so many of our staff are experienced surrogates – and they have shared with us the type of support surrogates need on their journey. Our surrogates receive top-notch prescreening, social work, legal and journey support from the moment they fill out their application until months after they deliver. Our team is ready to answer any question you can dream of (and then some).

You'll also be connected with other surrogate mothers through private social groups, and you'll experience exclusive events with the Circle team.

We can also connect you with skilled, trustworthy experts. For example, when it’s time for you to review legal contracts, we’ll recommend an attorney local to you with whom we’ve worked with previously, and who has a strong working knowledge of Assisted Reproduction Technology law. It’s just one more way we can clear the path for you and make the entire surrogacy program as seamless as possible. Read our blog post about the 10 steps to becoming to a surrogate.

 Intended Parents meeting surrogate mother

Finding a Perfect Intended Parent Match

As a New York gestational surrogate, the question of who you help is almost as important as your decision to help. After all, you and the prospective parents will embark on a monumental journey together. You want to be sure that you connect with and trust them fully. That’s why Circle Surrogacy built an extensive and thorough matching process.

As a first step, your Surrogate Support Team will try to find the perfect intended parent(s) for you, based on personality fit and legal circumstances. You’ll get to review each other’s profiles, ask questions, and generally feel each other out. There will also be an initial Skype call, and possibly an in-person meeting. It’s all about making sure both you and the intended parent(s) feel completely comfortable with the match. And of course, the surrogacy agreement only moves forward if you do.

Circle works with single parents, LGBTQ+ and heterosexual couples, domestic and international couples, and more. We’re confident you’ll be able to find a great match.

Getting Started

Surrogacy is one of the most rewarding experiences for all parties involved. If you are interested in becoming an intended parent, becoming a surrogate or applying to be egg donor, we're ready to educate you and partner with you on your journey. Learning more about surrogacy is the first step of your journey.