Become a parent as an LGBTQ+ individual or couple.

We were founded by a gay man who aspired to have his own family, and the strategic programs and partnerships we have in place are designed to make gay surrogacy possible.

Become a parent
 The family you've dreamed of can be yours.

The family you've dreamed of can be yours.

Circle Surrogacy is the leading surrogacy agency in the United States for LGBTQ+ couples and individuals. John Weltman, Circle's founder and gay dad through surrogacy, has been helping LGBTQ+ couples and individuals from around the world become parents since 1995. Today, we continue to offer the best surrogacy experience for gay parents in a variety of options, all to ensure your parenting journey with us is as special as it should be.

 What is surrogacy?

What is surrogacy?

Gestational surrogacy helps those who are unable to have children become parents through assisted reproduction with the help of an egg donor and gestational carrier. It’s a process that requires medical and legal expertise, as well as a strong support process throughout the journey.

Through IVF, embryos are created in a lab at a fertility clinic, using the gay intended parents' biology (one or both) as well as an egg donor. At the fertility clinic, 1-2 embryos are implanted into a gestational carrier, who carries the baby(ies) to term.

A gestational carrier has no genetic relationship to the child or children they deliver.

Becoming a gay parent via surrogacy.

Researching and choosing a surrogacy agency.

Beginning your journey toward gay surrogacy is a big step, so it's important to do your research! Not every surrogacy agency is a good fit, finding a surrogacy agency with which you have good chemistry and who shares your views about your the surrogacy process is key to a successful journey. Also, surrogacy laws vary by state, so working with an agency who has lawyers knowledgeable in ART and surrogacy law is important.

Finding a surrogate and an egg donor.

Growing your family through surrogacy means bringing two very important women into your life: your surrogate mother and your egg donor. You may have a family member or friend who wants to act as your egg donor, or perhaps you'll find an egg donor in our egg donor database.
Circle's Matching Manager will help you find the perfect surrogate match, and encourage you to form a strong bond with the woman who will carry your baby(ies).

Pregnancy and parenthood.

Hooray, your surrogate is pregnant and you're getting ready to become a dad! You'll be further developing your relationship with your surrogate, and perhaps even visiting her for appointments. Your agency will be supporting you through each milestone, helping you prepare for traveling for the birth and ensuring you have everything you need to return home safely and securely.

See the Entire Process

Gay parenting: everything you need to know.

Surrogacy costs for gay men.

See how much surrogacy and egg donation costs. Learn about Circle Surrogacy's exclusive Fixed Fee Program to help control costs.

Gay Surrogacy Costs

Surrogacy laws for LGBTQ+ parenting.

When entering into a surrogacy contract and journey, it's important to know your legal rights, and what to expect from a legal point of view.

Gay Surrogacy Laws

Finding the perfect women for your journey.

How to find a surrogate mother.

See how Circle matches you with your ideal surrogate to carry and care for your baby until delivery day.

Find a Surrogate

Finding your perfect egg donor match.

Identify your search criteria and find the women who will donate half of your baby's biology.

Find an egg donor

We're partners with LGBTQ+ organizations.

Since our inception over 20 years ago, we've been partnering with various LGBTQ+ organizations, including the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center, Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders (GLAD), Family Equality Council, Men Having Babies, Inc. and The Association des Familles Homoparentales.

Common questions from parents like you.

As you consider parenthood, you may have questions along the way. Don't worry. With 20+ years of experience building families through surrogacy, we've helped LGBT couples answer almost every question out there!

Why should I choose Circle Surrogacy?

Whether you are an intended parent, a surrogate or an egg donor, when you embark on a journey with Circle, we promise to be beside you every step of the way. We promise to educate, lead and guide you through your surrogacy and egg donation journey. We will work tirelessly to help you achieve success and fulfill your dream.

We are a full-service agency. You will work closely with a Journey Coordination team who will guide and support you throughout your entire journey, including social work, legal and billing support. Circle is the only agency in the world to provide unparalleled program offerings for parents, such as unlimited surrogate and egg donor matching, and an unlimited IVF package. We employ an in-house legal staff who are experts in reproductive and surrogacy law and insurance contracts.

At Circle, we have the highest level of dedication to building families. We'll help you navigate the road, smooth the bumps, and cheer when we reach our destination. Every person who works at Circle is dedicated to doing everything they can to help you build your family. The Circle Staff goes above and beyond to help you achieve your dream of parenthood.

How do I begin the process?

Starting your surrogacy begins with a free consultation. You'll hear from an experienced attorney as well as a process consultant. We'll tell you about our surrogacy services, ask you about your experience so far, and answer any questions you have.

Can I be a parent if I or my partner is HIV+?
Yes. Thanks to the Special Program of Assisted Reproduction (SPAR), intended parents who are HIV+ are able to grow their families with surrogacy. Through a sperm washing technique and HIV testing, it is possible for HIV+ men to safely father a biological child of their own with no risk to the baby or surrogate. For more information about surrogacy for HIV+ intended parents, click here.
Is Circle Surrogacy affiliated with any groups?

Yes. We are members of the American Society of Reproductive Medicine (ASRM). We work closely with the LGBT Community Center in New York, Family Equality Council, Resolve New England, Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders (GLAD), and Parent via Egg Donation (PVED). Our attorneys are active in the American Bar Association (ABA) Section of Family Law’s Subcommittee on Assisted Reproduction Technology and are admitted to the Massachusetts, New York, and California State Bars. In other words, we’re firmly committed to protecting the rights of the LGBTQ community, and ensuring that everyone - regardless of sexual orientation - can build the family they dream of.

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